How To Know IF He/She Is The Right One For You.
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Relationship becomes something beautiful the moment you have the belief that you've found the right person. You have had your chances with a lot of bad people in the past, still you can tell that this particular one is quite different from the others.
At this point, something sparks deep within and with time you begin to see your partner as a potential live partner - someone you want to grow old with and spend the rest of your life with.
At a point you're willing to give your all into the relationship but at second thought, you remember your past experiences, your partners all started from being an angel before the sudden transformation. You then begin to take notes of the slightest details only to know if this partner of yours sees you in the same light and whether or not, they will stand the test of time.
We have heard of cases of a three-year to as high as a ten-year relationship coming to an abrupt end. We have heard spouse stopping the wedding arrangements few days to the wedding. We have also heard of more disheartening cases where a party in relationship sends a wedding IV(invitation card) to the proposed partner.
One thing I feel we should all understand at this point is change; change they say is a constant thing and humans are perfect symbolism of change. They change like the chameleon and you never can tell their true intentions.
You might want to ask - how then do you know if someone is the right one or not ? The truth of the matter is you can hardly tell. You can only tell which is closer to it and which one is far from it considering you really want to be realistic and speak from the heart.
In some exceptional cases some have the gifts of knowing and on the long run, it pays out I.e it works out.
I believe instead of concentrating on finding the right one we should concentrate on making ourselves the right one. We become mingled up, we only take notes of what we don't like about our partners, disqualifying them from being the one (life partner). I feel instead of this, we should exude more effort on improving on our shortcomings ,which in turn poses us as the one.
Opposites they say, attracts. It all begins with the understanding that not everyone you meet will be perfect. Every human is working flaw, we all have flaws ,nobody has it all.
I'm not saying you shouldn't look out for qualities. Look out for qualities you like and also acknowledge his/her bad side. After this, both sides should readjust appropriately. Most importantly, let's learn to concentrate on ourselves. Everyone needs improvement here or there.
By this, everyone poses to be a potential life partner once the qualities are made know ,differences are acknowledged and a heart ever ready to love.
Just my take.
#Dynamic
A must read
Relationship becomes something beautiful the moment you have the belief that you've found the right person. You have had your chances with a lot of bad people in the past, still you can tell that this particular one is quite different from the others.
At this point, something sparks deep within and with time you begin to see your partner as a potential live partner - someone you want to grow old with and spend the rest of your life with.
At a point you're willing to give your all into the relationship but at second thought, you remember your past experiences, your partners all started from being an angel before the sudden transformation. You then begin to take notes of the slightest details only to know if this partner of yours sees you in the same light and whether or not, they will stand the test of time.
We have heard of cases of a three-year to as high as a ten-year relationship coming to an abrupt end. We have heard spouse stopping the wedding arrangements few days to the wedding. We have also heard of more disheartening cases where a party in relationship sends a wedding IV(invitation card) to the proposed partner.
One thing I feel we should all understand at this point is change; change they say is a constant thing and humans are perfect symbolism of change. They change like the chameleon and you never can tell their true intentions.
You might want to ask - how then do you know if someone is the right one or not ? The truth of the matter is you can hardly tell. You can only tell which is closer to it and which one is far from it considering you really want to be realistic and speak from the heart.
In some exceptional cases some have the gifts of knowing and on the long run, it pays out I.e it works out.
I believe instead of concentrating on finding the right one we should concentrate on making ourselves the right one. We become mingled up, we only take notes of what we don't like about our partners, disqualifying them from being the one (life partner). I feel instead of this, we should exude more effort on improving on our shortcomings ,which in turn poses us as the one.
Opposites they say, attracts. It all begins with the understanding that not everyone you meet will be perfect. Every human is working flaw, we all have flaws ,nobody has it all.
I'm not saying you shouldn't look out for qualities. Look out for qualities you like and also acknowledge his/her bad side. After this, both sides should readjust appropriately. Most importantly, let's learn to concentrate on ourselves. Everyone needs improvement here or there.
By this, everyone poses to be a potential life partner once the qualities are made know ,differences are acknowledged and a heart ever ready to love.
Just my take.
#Dynamic
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