Do love birds fly? 

It still baffles me how most acclaimed lovestruck relationships end up in the mod. You said you would go to the moon and back for this one. Night passes and you can't get their thoughts off your mind. You take joy in reminiscing moments shared with them. What then happened?  You could swear on your granny's grave it was true love. Why then did you let her go?  Why did you cheat on her?  Why then did you let him sleep off? He was different from the other guys you've met; you wanted to go all the way him, what went wrong? 

It's quite amazing, spending a reasonable amount of time in search  of something, you then eventually get it yet you let it slip off so easily . Most times I'd wonder what could have gone wrong. I ask myself questions like: Do true love break that easy?  Is it that easy to let go of someone you truly love ? 

I had seen grown up men who wouldn't stop raining praises on their spouse yet, they never hesitate to get down and naughty with younger girls.

 It's obvious you love her, why then cheat on her? 

I have also observed ladies who get so emotionally attached to someone ending up yielding to temptations of all sort. 

However, after proper scrutiny ,some likely reasons have been gathered which will be highlighted in the subsequent paragraphs.

First is insecurity : Insecurity could be said to mean uncertainty, lack of belief. This has greatly affected many couples. The fact that they have finally found what they have been in search of for so long is a reality to good to be true. They find it very difficult to believe the genuineness of their spouse. They are always in look for errors and little traces of promiscuity and insincerity which at the long run ruins the relationship. 

Differences : Opposites has always and will always attract. However, in the process of attraction, opposites still remains opposite. Before anyone goes into a relationship, they have this picture of what they want their relationship to look like and be like, the truth of the matter is we don't often get this painted picture. He/she might be slightly different from what you pictured, their attitudes may differ from what you'd really wanted. For the ladies, he might be cute but not as boxed up as you would have wanted him to be. For the guy, she is really pretty but she lacks the creativity in the four-corners of your bedroom, or perhaps good in that aspect and worse as a cook. 

So you end up finding yourself emotional entangled with this person you are really into and like even when they don't meet your 100% criteria. Some relationships fall out of these differences, they try exploring out to get this balance even when they know they can't break the  relationship already on ground. So we see in the case of guys, finding side chicks and in the case of girls, finding other pay cheque guys all in the name of complementing that which lacks. All these at the end breaks the relationship. 

The love you proclaimed is infected :

 I seriously don't know if it's just me but I strongly believe a great percentage of the love we proclaim is simply false and not real. I believe true love will always find a way. I believe true love should be without blemish but who am I to say. I must confess these things are quite complicated. We all have a messed up perception about love. We do really crazy things all in the name of love. 

True love is likened to raw gold, so is every relationships, everything can't be smooth and rosy at all times, every feelings true must pass through stages to prove its originality, it's authenticity as well as its beauty .

It's just my take though, you can always drop comments as why you think most love acclaimed relationship end up just like any other relationships and why others go all the way to the alter and happily ever after. 

Dynamic