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STRAIGHT FROM THE HEART💋 You look her straight in the eyes, the feelings, so genuine, you know she loves you wholeheartedly ,you know she deserves the world. Your heart burns with intense passion, her distance triggers sad feelings, you want to be around her yet you want to work so hard, pray so hard, all, just to create a nice world for this Jem to inhabit.  All she wants is you and all you want his her. You both look way beyond and here they are, the huddles, turmoil, tempest, wolves in sheep's clothing, all, waiting, to test the bond, to test the originality of what you both share.  And so you strife through all, when its winter, during the summer and so you both grow stronger, blooming, waxing stronger with every oppression, every hate, every opposition. She looks into her eyes and she gets all the motivation ,you look up above and you get all the motivation you both need.  Here we are, in this journey, never tired; always coming out victorious. I asked that they t...

Dating : perspective from both sides (male & female) Over the years I have observed most relationships, dating in particular, especially on the ones grounded in true love, and I have discovered that the perspective of "what the future holds" differ on both sides . The male and the female version: So why the male may be a bit uncertain even despite the authenticity of what he feels, a female on the other hand has everything planned out on a perfect future for not just her, but the both of them . The society demands that a man should be in charge and by being in charge, he should be able to fend not just for his wife but, his children and extended family as well, his and that of his wife's. A man, knowing the weight of the responsibility which lies on his shoulder is constrained within the hand of time. He feels he needs to be financially and psychological capable to carry out these roles within a limited time frame. This however prolongs his readiness . A woman...

Money and Dating This is a topic I have been wanting to write on for a very long time: "Money and dating" Love as we all know is a very essential part of every relationship as it serves as the foundation for which the bond grows stronger. Money on the other hand is also an essential tool that helps enable an easy flow in every relationship. It's perhaps quite surprising how people who claim to be in love end up dissing each other when the money-factor is absent or insufficient . Ladies tend to double date, having secret relationship with other guys who they feel can supply their needs financially while they either remain with the main guy out of love or eventually let go. Guys on the other seem to have dumped the cliche of man being the supplier of all things. Present day men like their women financially independent while on the other hand they exude little importance to the ones the spend massively on as those set only exist for a short time. All these bring us to t...

ASSUMPTIONS WHAT ARE YOU ASSUMING?  Let's talk on assumptions today. So it gets to that point in life where you become a mini celebrity and everyone seems to know a thing or two about you . At first, it seems like a good thing; the sense of being popular and being the talk of the town. Your news begins to spread like wildfire and you begin observe everyone's conscious and subconscious attitude towards you. When its a positive disposition, you feel really good even though you're uncertain on why this is. It's feels the opposite way when people's dispositions depict nothing but hatred, jealousy, disgust,etc. , then you begin to ask yourself some questions, you become more interested in the 'why' ,not having a clue where you went wrong. There is always that point where you get in the bad book of people. You become the talk of the town based on what they think they know. It's so funny how people conclude on the truth based on mere assumptions . What...

Let's Talk About Love Three Major Reasons why Most Relationships Break  Life has it stages and one very important stage in life is that moment when you are grown up enough to find love. That stage where you are emotionally and psychologically ready to get involved in the relationship rollercoaster. However it has been observed that some start at a very early stage in life, while for others, it takes a while longer. Many who have gathered experience from one relationship to the other will agree that it can be difficult to find someone with whom you perfectly match. Everyone has a fantasy of this perfect relationship where both parties involved are happy ever after. However, as a result of experience coupled with close observation and scrutiny of other relationships,some facts  has been gathered and we have come to the conclusion that this fantasies don't last for seconds in the real world . Quite a number of reasons can be outlined on why most relationships crash, reason...