A lot of things have made sense to me over the past few years. As we grow older on a daily basis, we tend to acquire new things that will in turn build us into becoming wiser and better. Most times the little things we do go a long way in specifically showing who we truly are. The words of our mouth, the friends we keep, our manner of interaction, level of seriousness ,social stats, all go a long way in defining our true nature.
Ever imagined how quick people are to form a perception about you? They can literarily write a novel about you and you had be surprised these set of people aren't even close friends of yours, then how come they can say so much?
It's pretty shocking how a lot of people know so much about you even than you do of yourself.
This however is the more reason why we need to be cautious of how you live and behave,talk and interact around people.
At one point everyone begins to like you for no specific reasons, at other point, they show attitude you can hardly place. At this stage, we should all understand that humans are super dynamic, everybody is prone to change, supprisingnly for no genuine reason what so ever.
Everyone is watching everyone, everyone is observing. The fact that nobody is saying anything doesn't mean they've all gone blind . You had be surprised the things they will say of you when interrogated.
No one is asking you to be who you are not. Be you in a way that pleases you and at the same, wouldn't arouse unnecessary negative attention.
Yes, no one cares what anyone says; yes, we don't live our lives on what anyone thinks but sometimes the good reviews we get go on long way in improving you as a person.
We live in an era where everyone hides under a cover, farcades everywhere. You had hardly know who is who. Irrespective, knowing who someone else is really doesn't count, knowing who you are is what matters. With a little modesty and spontaneity here and there, "we go all dey alright laslas".
Remember, everyone is watching, be mindful of the action you take and the decisions you make.
shine
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